How to Be More Likable

We all have the need to be accepted by society and above all, to be liked by people. We like being loved and cared about. How exactly can we make it happen? Read on for highlights.

Here goes:

1) Be the first to reach out to help. When you see helpless people for instance, a child or an old gentleman in need of help, be the first to reach out. When you see friends and acquaintances bogged down with low spirits, cheer them up by being funny and making them laugh and helping to forget their worries for a while. Always be the jolly person around and make others happy. This way, no one can fail to notice you nor can’t help liking you.

2) Every person in the world needs a feeling of importance. Fulfill that need for them by honoring their values, wishes and ambitions. Once they find that you are actually making them feel important, they can’t help but smile and adore you. They will find a friend in you and appreciate it.

3) Compliment genuinely every person you meet. A good compliment on their hair style, get up or accessories will certainly make their day. So make it a habit. Start with your own family members and spread it to the outside world. There is enough love to go around if you start complimenting others. Love everybody – not only your family but your community, friends, colleagues including Boss at work, acquaintances and even strangers. You are bound to be loved back and that will make you feel good.

4) Play with the children of your community. The children will love you for that. So will the adults for taking care of their children.

5) Give good and beneficial gifts on birthdays and anniversaries of friends and family. They should be something they crave for and don’t already possess. The more you mix with them, it will be clearer to you what is it they really would like to have and don’t have already. This will make them immensely like you.

6) Wear a smile always all the time and greet people happily. People will find you enigmatic and be drawn to you. They would come to share their problems with you. Show them empathy and if possible, solve their problems for them. Immediately you will be the go-to-guy person around and people will flock around you because they like you so much.

7) Always be a friend in need. If you are able to give your friends what they need badly and urgently, sure they will not only appreciate but also become absolutely fond of you. Even if they drift away from you, they will always remember you, stay in touch and be grateful to you.

Summing up, these are some of the ways you can be an immensely likable and adorable person whom people would consider a valuable gem to be around.